It seems odd to me that your front OUTSIDES are warm. With negative camber, the inboard shoulders should be worked more. The rears would appear to be working as expected, but both ends should be gaining negative camber with jounce (compression). With a big wing, your car will be much more sensitive to wind gusts at speed and that could be part of the nervousness you're feeling.
Toe patterns do change with vertical travel, that's why there are charts in the manual for reference and shims available for adjustment. If your shock spring perches are adjustable, start by confirming your suspension settings at curb ride height. Assemble a stack of blocks to put under the frame rails near the jack points that you can increment in 3/4" to 1" steps, above and below curb height. Loosen the spring perches, pull one set of blocks, drop car onto blocks and measure camber and toe in jounce. Pull another set and remeasure. Repeat until you hit full bump. While you're at it, go back to curb and start *adding* blocks to measure camber and toe change in droop. Fire up the computer and make a chart in Excel that plots camber and toe curves. You'll then have a baseline for understanding and adjusting your camber and toe curves. If your spring preload is not adjustable, then the easiest way to measure at jounce is to pull the shocks. If you do this, be sure and ballast the car properly before re-torquing the attachment bolts.