Ok, here's the conclusion (I hope)...
After I made this post, I realized the strobing and the flashing the light was doing was what it does each time I crank up the car. I remembered that I checked the ground and all splices for tightness but never checked where I went into the fusebox for the power supply. I had used one of those blade things that the wire is crimped to and slips into an empty fuse cavity. I checked it and it seemed a little loose. I unplugged it, plugged it back up good and snug and took a 5-6mi testdrive. It was working fine until I got within 1/2 mile of my house. It started strobing every 30 secs or so. I pulled over and wiggled the connector some to try to tighten it up. I think I actually loosened it because the light strobed the rest of the way home. When I got home, I pulled out the connector from the fuse cavity and could see where over time it appeared to have spread the cavity connectors and must've been allowing the blade thing to wiggle just enough to lose connection. So, I moved it from the empty fuse cavity and spliced into the OEM cigar lighter wiring. Took another testdrive and all seems to be working. I just have to put all the interior pieces back together tomorrow and hope it still works.
There are 2 downsides to using the cigar lighter wiring as the power supply vs. the fuse cavity where it used to be:
1. If I ever want to change the dials to where the light activates, I'll have to remove the radio bezel, unplug the power supply, adjust the dials and plug it back up. You can't just adjust the dials without "rebooting" it. Simply turning the car off won't suffice anymore b/c now its on a power supply thats getting constant power vs. the fuse cavity where it was "rebooted" everytime I turned off and restarted the car. I had never messed with the dials in the 2 years I've had the light so I doubt this will ever really be a problem.
2. Used to, when I turned the car on, the light would strobe, letting me know it had power and was working. But now, since its on the steady power supply from the cigar lighter, it doesn't strobe when I crank the car up anymore. If I ever pop a fuse or for some reason the shiftlight doesn't work, I won't know. This kinda bothers me. I'd hate to be up in the high RPM range and not have the shiftlight working and never know it until I hit the rev limiter and ruin a good pair of underwear.
I looked but didn't see another empty fuse cavity I could use. I'm going to look around again tomorrow before I button everything back up and try to find an empty cavity (or somewhere else) I can run the power wire from so it'll strobe on startup like it used too. But, for now I'm just happy its working and not going off constantly. If any ******* girls are prone to seizures, they would've fallen out after a mile or so the way it was acting
