I have Belanger setup. Yes, the wires short and there is not much you can do about it, because it's a function of heat rather then geometry.
The wires short when the insulation compound in O2 head gets melted so - as a function of vibration - wires would get pulled up a little and expose uninsulated parts and then its only a matter of time for them to touch and cause short. BTW reverse gear solenoid is on the same circuit so when you get O2 CEL and can put gear in reverse easy you are not shorting, it's something else.
For now I am using Denso O2s which seem to have little more robust insulation at their head and so far so good. Definitely skip the OEM crap.
P.S. External insulation of O2s and cables doesn't help, I do have that well done and it was no help. The heat goes from inside.