I've only heard good things about T & D - and if Mopar are the same and cheaper, they'd be the ones.
Roller Rockers are a very sensible upgrade if there are future plans to do other things like cam, headers, heads etc. Also good if you like to spend a lot of time going to 6000rpm. But if you don't want to spend money and change much - don't do it as one thing leads to another.... hot rodding is just like that
On a stock engine - only you can decide if 20rwhp is worth the cost.
I agree with JDAWG - the design of the RR is far superior to stock, but they do need expert installation and adjustment.
As a rev head - better springs, cut to length pushrods and T & D's would be priority on my shopping list.