The reason for 2-3 year flush recommendations has nothing to do with the gaskets. The traditional green antifreeze uses silicate additives that coat the metal surfaces, but in time, detach and float as jelly-like clouds in the coolant. Therefore you lose the corrosion protection and the concentrated silicates are abrasive and wear the ceramic water pump seals, causing leaks.
Flush treatments therefore remove the old fluid, hopefully rinse hard enough to loosen anything that has settled, and should have a chemical to help remove what it can from the metal surface. When you add new antifreeze, you start all over again.
Newer antifreeze, variously called extended life, long life, DEX-COOL, or 5year/150,000 mile performance, is low or no silicate. These additives stay in solution until corrosion may begin, then attack only that site. There is no or very little silicate to abrade water pump seals.
You can now understand the difference - the silicates are "used up" essentially as soon as you put it in the engine. The long life coolant additives remain on duty until needed and can stand guard much longer. In heavy duty vehicles the coolant life is 250,000 miles and longer.
Want a demonstration? Get some Prestone Low-Tox (I'm not picking on propylene glycol, only the additive they use - and I just did this with this brand, so I know what happens) and a $10 non-timer coffee *** (so it stays on continuously). Put 10 cups total in the *** (50-50 mix) and turn it on. By day 2 you will have huge fluffy white snowflakes. Holy Cow, Batman! You can do the same experiment with a long-life antifreeze, but it will not have anything fall out.
GM uses DEX-COOL as factory fill, not because it lasts longer, but because it virtually eliminated warranty water pump replacements. All the stories circulating about lawsuits, sludge, destroys radiators, etc, were various very poor housekeeping or underfilling by GM and not a DEX-COOL issue. Japanese OEMs still prefer non-silicate, many others, including Mopar, have a "hydrid" that is low silicate. The technical debate is how much fast-acting silicate is needed, since the opponents see the non-silicated additives as "too slow to react."
Chad, consider a long life coolant and extend your flushes to every 5 years, although I'd like to hear that you reached 150,000 miles first.
Rogue, search some very old posts on this forum - there was someone doing exactly the same as you and ended up with a swiss cheese block. Please, buy yourself some Zerex Racing Super coolant, as that is the corrosion additive package used in anti-freeze, but without the glycol. You'll have "big company metal protection" and the better heat transfer you want.