Buy a 12oz can of 134a. Try to find a setup that has a hose with a pressure gauge. Follow the instructions on the setup you buy but here are a few pointers.
Listen for the A/C compressor. If it cycles on/off/on/off etc, the charge is probably low and you'll see the gauge pressure drop/rise as the compressor turns on/off. If the compressor doesn't run at all you need to bring it to an A/C service shop for repair, evac. and charge.
Purge the charging/gauge hose of air by allowing just a tad of gas to escape as you hook up the fitting to the system service port...You don't want even a tiny amount of atmospheric gas to enter the system. With A/C on, car closed up the gauge should read between 25 and 40psi when properly charged depending on outside air temps. Generally, if you're still getting some cold air, one can is just about right. Go ahead and add the gas. Allow the system to run long enough for it to cool the car down. The compressor may cycle a bit but if the air is cold at the vents, no problem. Also, if you have a thermometer at the vents, the reading should be around 40*(+/-) If you do this when it's hot outside the compressor will likely continue running and the gage will stabilize around 30psi after a while.
These numbers are approximate and depend on the condition of the system and outside air conditions.
Or you could take her to a service shop......
