The notchy feel when shifting is one of the characteristics of the T-56 when new. Really not to bad for such a huge transmission. At about 40-K miles you will notice the notchy shift gone. It takes that long for the syncros and gears to wear down. Blueprinting and balancing the trans, ($2500.00 job) would elininate this imediatly. It's not really the shifter as many people think, it's the newness and shear size of these trans. that make them hard to shift. Big rig trucks take about 100 thousand miles to get a nice shift out of them.
The sycro material in the T-56 is slow to wear.
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ps, DC decided to overide Tremecs fluid choice of ATF and went with 75-90 for the higher shear pressure caracteristics, and this is also a factor.