T&D advises that one mills their heads I think .030 for proper stand height, however, it is not necessary for the vast majority if not all people(actually I haven't heard anyone mill their heads just to get rockers on) to mill your heads. Your tech is just going by what T&D suggests.
No one goes to that trouble just for the rr's. They just check the stand height when they are installed and make sure they roll correctly on the vavle and make sure the push rod lenght is appropriate. Hundreds have done it this way, but I don't guess it makes it "right", but it works fine.
If you do want to take your heads off, mind as well get them ported and polished and bigger vavles while they are off.
Oh and to answer your question you could use Arrows which work good also, but the stand height IMO is not/has not kept everyone else and myself from installing them.
John