There's really no one size fits all with gearing. It's always going to be dependent on what your priorities are, how much rpm you can tolerate on the highway and what speed you normally cruise at, what kind of driving you mostly do and also aspects of the car like tire diameter and engine mods (stock cam, big cam, turbo, blower etc...)
With that said, with the .50 final OD ratio of the Viper T56, I wouldn't worry too much about RPM on the highway unless you like to cruise at 100 lol. Even with a 3.73, you'd only be turning about 2k at 80mph with a 26" (stock 335/35/17) diameter tire.
As far as holding its own in a street or drag race, there's a few things you must consider.
For a 1/4 mile you'll want to be crossing the traps in 1:1(4th gear) and ideally you'll want to be crossing the line just at or a little above peak HP. Not knowing your mods, assuming the car is stock and traps around 118-120 for a gen 2, a 3.73 puts you across the traps at around 5700 RPM. With peak HP on a stock motor coming at around 5200, that's a good stretch past redline and means you'll either be winding it out well after power drops off or you'll be shifting into 5th, either one being detrimental to your 1/4 mile time. So while the 3.73 should allow the car to accelerate to that point quicker, you'll likely lose any benefit in ET due to running out of power band.
A 3.55 should put you across the traps at around 5400 which is just a little over peak power, and should be more ideal.
For a street race, it really depends, since there's no set stopping point. Typically, if racing on the highway, you'll want a taller gear since it'll allow you to complete the race in a lower trans gear without having to upshift into a higher gear, losing leverage and falling out of your power band. Example, if you're racing say 60-130, you may even be better off with a stock gear as either a 3.73 or 3.55 will be forcing you to shift into 5th before hitting 130, and your rate of acceleration will plummet as you drop out of the power band into the bottom of a very tall overdrive gear. and you'll watch the corvette pass you just as you're needing gear optimization the most.
Last factor to consider is on the street, how much traction can you get? 3.73 is a pretty big jump from a 3.09 and with the torque of a viper, it'll likely make hooking in first gear from a dig difficult on any sort of steetable tire on an un-prepped surface. It'll be a blast to drive if you like blowing the tires off with ease, but you'll probably end up losing most races from a dig due to lack of traction. Starting line ratio would be about 9.7ish which normally I'd say is ideal, but not on a car as light as a viper with a motor generating freakish off idle torque unless you roll around on some real sticky rubber.
Personally, for those reasons, I would think 3.55 would probably be better for what you're trying to do, but again, everything I just mentioned changes slightly depending on tire height (significantly taller tire may warrant a steeper gear) or if you're making significantly more power than stock (which may warrant a taller gear).